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new to this 3/31/2008
hi i am francesca i am 25 yrs old my fella is 21 , hes very intrested
in a 3sum or 4sum altho no full swap being a nice gf and intrested
in this anyway i said sure lets join up here and see how it
goes so here is my 1st article and i will post more as it progresses
salisburycpl2...
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117 Views,
9 Votes
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On relationships... 3/19/2008
Its been said that the biggest mistake men make going into
a relationship is to believe that the gal will stay the same,
and that the biggest mistake women make going into a relationship
is to believe that the guy will change (in the way they want
him to). Both are wrong, indeed somewhat happily so. To
remain the same would be to become stagnant, and to change
completely means that at some inner ...
1 Comments,
133 Views,
11 Votes
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Why dominants need welts, too! 3/19/2008
I recently read about a dominant
who switches being tut-tutted by submissives who insist
that they are not a "Real Dominant."
*shudder*
I also have heard dominants assert that they refuse
to bottom.
Should someone who is not self-identified as a top or dominant
ever switch?
In a ...
2 Comments,
127 Views,
10 Votes
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Finding "The One" 3/16/2008
I'd like to discuss a long time frustration of mine-
women only interested in finding "The One".
Seems like a whole lot of women, submiisve or otherwise,
won't have even a conversation with a guy if he can't
be deemed immediately "The One".
Now I realize that nobody wants to be used or have their little
heart broken, but really ladies, you need to lighten up.
Finding ...
3 Comments,
149 Views,
8 Votes
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getting back with an ex 2/11/2008
i was wondering wat are some ways to show or prove to ya ex
that u fucked up and want to get back together. the fact is
my ex says that i will always be in her heart damn i fucked
up when i told her it might not work cause she moved so far.
i need help. any suggestions
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The corner stones. 2/9/2008
I know that W/we A/all want to put the most wanted things
out there to make U/us more wanted.But the first corner
stone is to be honest.If that does not seem to be the best
light to be seen in, readjust your focus.If you find the
O/one you want and T/they find you, then T/they find it
is a lie, Y/you will loose T/them!Another corner stone
is dedication.To get what Y/you want may be easy, but ...
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Tall Ships, Shinning Stars, Brass Rings and Water Meter Covers 1/29/2008
Tall Ships, Brass Rings, Shinning Stars and Water Meter
Covers.....
We all think that we know just what we want; just what we’d
wish for if given a chance, but in actuality, how many of
us get the opportunity to reach for that star shinning so
brightly in the night sky or the magical carousel’s brass
ring? How many get to board that tall ship and sail into our
destiny?
...
3 Comments,
86 Views,
8 Votes
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Out With Old In With New??? 1/28/2008
I have recently started dating a guy who I like very much.
He likes me too but we seem to have a situation that is causing
us problems. He has a woman he's known awhile and she
has an 18 year old , they (the mom & him) were
bed buddies before we hooked up, I found out he has been texting
& calling both mom & & not telling
me so I didn't get upset, I am uncomfortable with this,
but is it right ...
2 Comments,
118 Views,
2 Votes
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First Contact Advice to a submissive man 10/23/2007
I just answered an alt message/email from someone who was
attracted to me. Perhaps some of what I said will be helpful
to other submissive men who are facing the enormous hurdle
of getting a dominant lady to notice them.
Of course, a big MUST, is to read the Lady's profile
carefully , and Her blogs or posts in the "Groups"
on alt so that you know how to write something that might
be ...
4 Comments,
523 Views,
20 Votes
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Lay down Ground Rules 10/17/2007
You have met Mr/Ms Right or Sub/Slave perfect...Now the
work begins for both sides. If you are master/mistress...lay
down the ground rules for the relationship....be it short
term...long term...causal...24/7 etc. Don't assume
someone knows something ...but it in black and white and
you have no problems...You choose the path that needs to
be taken for the situation but never leave out some form ...
6 Comments,
324 Views,
11 Votes
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Online Relationships 10/13/2007
Do online relationship really progress to reality?
In all the years I have been online seeking a partner in BDSM
and D.s play I have yet to have longivity from being online.
Of course, I have to say that I have met many good men and women,
but no man has captured my time and attention enough for
me to even remotely want to take it to the next level.
Do you think its because once ...
4 Comments,
218 Views,
8 Votes
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Understanding 7/6/2007
While building up a relationship it's
very important to take two features into consideration.
1. Priorities are no the same, for man and woman, hence interest
tend to vary, besides most man are not multitasking. While
a woman can watch a movie and talk with a friend, if a woman
approaches a man who is looking into a football game, he
tends to either ignore the woman, or ...
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6 Votes
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Belated Birthday Surprise 6/29/2007
Where is She? Where can She be? I just keep wondering. It
has been almost 45 minutes now since She called saying She
was leaving and headed my way. I have had time to check into
the Ramington Inn, get maintenance to come get the door
open for me when the key wouldn’t work, get undressed, put
the chain leashes on the bed in case She wants to spreadeagle
me on it and now it seems I have been ...
1 Comments,
103 Views,
4 Votes
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Aftercare...Why is it so important? 6/27/2007
zennflowerAftercare
is the time taken after the scene that brings the sub back
to the top out of sub space. It's where bonding between
the Dominant and sub takes place or perhaps a better way
of putting it is the re-enforcing of the bond between the
two. Aftercare lets both know that for the two of them it's
more than just play, more than just scening that the ...
14 Comments,
800 Views,
64 Votes
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On Trust & Faith 6/14/2007
As those of you who have been checking in know, I have been
giving this quite some thought and have come to quite the
unexpected conclusion. You can also read this on my blog
On Trust Faith. Read on!
I have written in the past on Trust and have penned highly
raved essays that sounded great with all the right words
and phrases. We all hear that trust is one of cornerstones
of this ...
1 Comments,
67 Views,
11 Votes
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How Well Do You Listen To You? 6/14/2007
How well do you listen to yourself? How closely do you pay
attention to your "gut instincts"? How well
do you take action based on this information?
These gut instincts were originally named as the information
comes from our "gut" or power center. The seat
of our life force, what in the East is called Chi.
We'd like to believe that what someone tells about
themselves to be true. ...
1 Comments,
52 Views,
7 Votes
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Knowing more about BDSM than your partner 4/14/2007
I have trained women who are experienced in BDSM, and on'e
who are just learning about it, and what they want to gain
from the experience. I tend to take it slower with newbies so as not to make it too
intense to start. I like to feel out whether they are just
looking to be tied up and f*cked, or if they are truly looking
to give up control at a greater level...more of a Master/slave
situation. ...
2 Comments,
172 Views,
7 Votes
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FUN AND FUCK 3/28/2007
HAAI..I AM A 29 YEARS GIRL ..ONE DAY ONE OF MY FRIEND CAME
TO MY HOME WITH HER HUSBOND..ACTULLY THE MISSED THIER BUS
AND CAME TO OUR HOME FOR NIGHT STAY..WE TOOK THE DINNER TOGHETER
AND THEY INCIST ME TO JOIN THEM FOR FUN I WAS THINKING BUT
SLOWELY HE STARTED TO TOUCH MY BODY..FIRST HE STARTED TO
RUB MY SHOULDER AND OPINCH MY BOOBS WHEN HE IS PLAYING WITH
MY BODY MY FRIEND STARTED TO LIFT MY ...
4 Comments,
493 Views,
26 Votes
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what do you think about...? 3/1/2007
When you are on this website, do you think it is a good way
to know people and exchange with, anything you want to exchange?
Do you think it's the same way in all countries, or do
you think there is some differences according with cultures
and way of life in specific countries? Finally do you succeed to have good relationships, virtual
or real, even shorts but good, or would you say about it ...
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2 Votes
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my take on building a relationship 2/16/2007
be 100 percent you want to start it before you begin it as
the are full time work at the start so you dont have time to
think about if there the perfect one because you need all
the time you can get making it the perfect one
1 Comments,
92 Views,
5 Votes
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I don't understand... 2/1/2007
Hi,
I'm a newbie submissive, stepping out on the road to
learning about becoming a good sub for a potential dom.
A long time ago I meet a fantastic dom, who I liked very much
and felt liked me. Everything was going really well, and
we talked about meeting up. I cannot stress how much I wanted
him, and to meet him. Yet at the same time I was going through
an extremely ...
2 Comments,
459 Views,
7 Votes
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Building a relationship 1/27/2007
When you want to build a relationship, first off, make sure
you are truly in love with the person. Don't confuse
love with a passing, temporary infatuation. Spend some
good, quality time with that person. Notice how often you
two have sex with each other. If after a year or two, the sex
is still great, then go for it. If not, then it's time
to call it quits before someone's feelings get ...
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4 Votes
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You Can’t Go Home Again -- Or Can you? 1/13/2007
Thomas Wolfe’s critically acclaimed novel, You Can’t
Go Home Again, was published in 1940. The novel chronicles
a man’s search for himself and centers on the theme that
you cannot recover the past. This novel came to my mind when
I began reading a book entitled Finding Meaning in the Second
Half of Life: How to Finally Really Grow Up by James Hollis
(2005).
Wolfe’s novel ...
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6 Votes
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How Can I Tell IF It Is Abuse? (for the newbie) 12/22/2006
Simply said. . .
If It Is Not CONSENSUAL it is NOT BDSM
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Here is a short checklist that can help you determine if
you or someone is being abused.
Is it Consensual?
Is your partner in CONTROL of hirself?
Does your partner REFRAIN from Hitting you in anger?
...
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13 Votes
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Master and slave 12/20/2006
I was after her beauty, and she conceived beauty in pretty
romantic terms.We might be inclined to laugh at the extravagance
of his beauty worship if there were not something almost
magnificent in his single minded dedication to it.
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229 Views,
5 Votes
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Proper Speech Equitete 12/13/2006
When courting a Domme, how should a new submissive act?
I was wondering, is there a proper speech etiquette when
talking when a Submissive is talking to a Domme? I'm
a little new, and I don't want to put anyone off. Are
there any words I should not say, or be hesitant in saying?
Also, when meeting in public, is there a proper way I should
act? Or should I just be ...
0 Comments,
297 Views,
7 Votes
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Bonding and Spirituality in D/s 12/12/2006
Service is an essential part in many D/s relationships
and it provides a natural way to bond between Master and
slave (or dominant and submissive -- throughout this essay
for simplicity, we will refer to the dominant as Master
and the submissive as slave). However, most service is
task and goal oriented. In other words, the slave is given
orders to complete a set of assignments. It is ...
2 Comments,
604 Views,
11 Votes
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The Only True Aphrodisiac 12/9/2006
We humans like the idea of spontaneity in our romantic relationships,
we look for drugs and other agents that may help stimulate
sexual desire, but love is a rebel bird that nobody can ever
tame and lust is a fickle mistress not well understood.
We have seen considerable interest in using chemical communication
based on human pheromones to help stimulate sexual desire,
just like ...
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5 Votes
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Meeting that first one... 12/6/2006
Sometimes when you least expect it, someone new comes in
to your life and introduces things you had never dreamed
of.
For me that was BDSM. It was the start of a new year and he was
someone I would not have looked at twice. It started with
100 texts a day but then when I tried to sustain that a few
months later, I was "clingy!" ... so I moved
on. But somehow it changed me. It ...
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154 Views,
6 Votes
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No toes left 11/29/2006
Think i keep shooting myself in the foot by being to open
and honest about what i want as most "doms" just
read the profile of a sub and say "hay guess what i like
what you like".I am so sick of the fakes on here, you
can talk to a sub for a month but when you come to meet up there
always a problem!(i hear its just as bad for subs looking
for doms, they get told they are going to get used ...
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