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knowing is not to abuse 2/27/2005
I was going to post a comment to the “Diff. between S/D relationship
& mentally abusive one? “
And then thought better of it…. Safe Sane & consensual…
yes.
The problem arises from the age old candy store syndrome
I am in the candy store and I want…
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I have heard and seen Dominants and submissive who jump
in and commit to a D/s or M/s relationship from the ...
2 Comments,
269 Views,
9 Votes
,5.99 Score
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does it work.. of course 2/17/2005
Jim (Dominant, melj)
Wow
It is the first time i have looked at the Mag section and I
was shocked...
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I can see so many lost soul's who for whatever reason
seem to be in a pickle... negativity and lots of it...
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RELATIONSHIPS
There are many types of relationships in the alternative
scene, none are wrong or right they are only what we need,
if you want ...
3 Comments,
231 Views,
9 Votes
,4.71 Score
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Being in love and having slaves 2/15/2005
Is it possible for this to be mutually exclusive?
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I have a very dominant side, but I don't tend to express
is to partners, as I feel it is seperate from the relationship.
I'm happy with it being this way.
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Is it really possible to have the Mistress/Slave relationship
intertwined and in a 'normal' partnership, and
is it necessary, in ...
5 Comments,
444 Views,
13 Votes
,5.32 Score
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Thoughts of a sub, the response from the Dominant 2/6/2005
When I first saw you weeks back. I knew then I had to have you.
The want and desire was strong. But not until I was within
inches of you, feeling your heat radiating out, smelling
the faint and underlying aroma of lust and need from you,
was my control sorely tested as it has not been in so many
years. While sitting talking to the people last night you
passed and grazed your nails across my ...
0 Comments,
348 Views,
13 Votes
,6.00 Score
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Thoughts of a sub 2/6/2005
I sat here last night, thinking, always thinking, about
what would happen if you, or I lost control and started to
explore... Being that I crave your touch so badly, and you
crave touching me so badly, beyond, for both of us, the comfortable
yet tragically torturous yet.... So much needed caresses,
mostly in passing or out of the habit of just what felt right
at the time...But I so ...
0 Comments,
198 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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question 2/1/2005
is it alright not to want any thing like for example i was
laying in bed naked and my gf( at the time ) came over got naked
to but we didnt do any thing i mean i didnt mind cause i have
always thought as long as i get time with her im happy well
im not so sure now she said thats what she wanted and stuff
and she liked doing that well i found out that she started
to get it some where else so ...
0 Comments,
134 Views,
2 Votes
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"SANTA!^^I'M PREGNANT^^!" 1/25/2005
SANTA{DATELINE]PREGNANT?Dont.blameMe SNOW-WHITE;SANTA
I'm still 5'-8" I was.118#(size 3 or 5)andwore, tight
fitting jeans and.miniskirts. Now I weigh 163#(size 12
or 14), I've accepted my new figure but, my husband, Prince
Charming hasn't. He continues to buy me expemive clothes
(size 5), telling me to set them aside untl I can fit in them
agan. Can I get my husband and ...
0 Comments,
144 Views,
3 Votes
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SANTA;#1-LOOKOUT^SLAYAGE.TV(BuffyVamp.Slayerwebsite) 1/24/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]Stake^TheUndead"Buffy SECRETSANTA;Rhonda
Wilcoxis.finding out what is behind Buffy's Vampire'
Sayer's Punch! "I was there from the first season
, the name was goofy, it had to be really good or horrible, "said
Rhonda , a professor of English at Gordon college in Geeorgia.
The show.was.created.by.JossWhedon, and began ...
0 Comments,
39 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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"SANTA'S.HIDEAWAY.USE.TO.BE.CASTLEDRACULA?" 1/23/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]FORRENT.DRAC.HIDEAWAY Nestled deep
in the scenic heartof a Transylvania setting. All rooms
have CountDrac.-sized beds. Room service is an extra monthly
charge, with hot and cold maidenhead service at no extra
charge if you choose to change the blood, semen streaked
bed linen nightly. nurafora9cent ourly fee. Stay inour.moseleum
like luxury suites, guaanteed vermin and ...
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42 Views,
0 Votes
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"SANTA,What's.Grandpa.doing.in Iraq[War?]" 1/20/2005
SANTA[Deadline]Mosul, iraq, BaseCamp: SECRETSANATA
was not aware that the government had resorted to pull-
out all the stops and, recalling 50yr and older ex-GIs, such
as Major John Nelson for duty in Iraq. He says he doesn't
mind the troops under him calling him "Grandpa"
and "Dad", and after all they are"whipper-snappers"
in their 20's and he's 51. SANTA; has learned the ...
0 Comments,
61 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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"SANTA IF I WAS PRESIDENT I'D..."(AconcernedTeen) 1/19/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]Freedoms.answer.ATeen SECRETSANTA.asked.severalteen-agers
before and after the lastRe-election of The"PREZ", a
simple questsion, what they'd do if they were President?
Emily N., 18, of Tampa, Florida said- "When I am
President I will remember several thing like;Reember
what it was like to live with 2 hard working parents.eking
out a living day by day, Remember In ...
0 Comments,
67 Views,
2 Votes
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SANTA;"PREZ"^GEO.W.BUSH^AGENDA.2005: 1/17/2005
SANTA[DEADLINE]WASH, D.C."PREZ": SECRETSANTA;Both
Federal and Local Govermnts will get tougher agressing
individual rights, (that's.unprovok- ed). The
machinery to implement exe- cutive Order Woman 490 which
gives the President power to do any thing he deems neccessary
for the welfare of the nation, which includes the destruction
of all currency in the United States, and probably ...
0 Comments,
78 Views,
1 Votes
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Poly relationships 1/9/2005
Do poly relationships EVER work? Is there a formula to make
it work? Or is it something that others can grow into? Are
certain people cut out for poly lifestyles?
4 Comments,
316 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score
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heyyyyyyyyyy 1/4/2005
to paintbrushAdrift:you r so sexy and attractive, i like
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u.
0 Comments,
105 Views,
8 Votes
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Need a woman.s advice 12/30/2004
First,
Do women like men who are hairy or shaved?
During the seventies and early eighties, it was "macho"
if you were hairy, now I hear women say they like a man who
is smooth. I see this often when gay guys are looking, but
what about women? I was hairy (being Italian), but I have
since shaved smooth, except the hair on my head)(the big
one).Second, does size matter? I hear conflicting ...
5 Comments,
253 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Finding a Dom or Sub 12/30/2004
A place where you can have fun and possibly find what you
are looking for, is at the New York Renisance Faire.There
is the dramatic and romantic side to be satisfied here,
as well as a hugh collection of people in leather and spandex,
as well as women laced up in corsets.
I am sure amongst some of those in costume are those living
in the "alternate" lifestyle.
If you have never been ...
1 Comments,
131 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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In The Beginning 12/23/2004
Many people have 2 lives. In the real world, they may be straight
ordinary people and go about their straight ordinary day.
Maybe even I am one of those people. who knows.
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In here, we can be want we want to be. When we meet others,
they only know the us that is here in this online family.
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So when and how would one incorporate the two lives without
disrupting ...
3 Comments,
276 Views,
28 Votes
,2.01 Score
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R diamonds a girls best friend 12/21/2004
Can wealth and diamonds realy fill the void in someones
(a dommes) soul. i think NOT! i think the jewels will keep
the domme entertained for a while, not very long though...it
cant compare the true power exchange...in my life, i believe
in the power exchange, i have lived it. can anything else
even compare? how long will it take her to venture out and
find the one thing that does make her ...
1 Comments,
240 Views,
32 Votes
,1.74 Score
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If you really want to WOW your girl.... 12/19/2004
I swear if you do this you will have her (or him) forever!!!
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Purchase a dozen roses, go to your local arts and crafts
store and purchase one silk rose. (You can get them looking
so real!) Take one of the real roses out of the vase and place
on her pillow. Add the silk rose into the middle of the 11
remaining roses. (Cut silk stem down if rose doesnt completely
match, that way ...
3 Comments,
493 Views,
53 Votes
,5.59 Score
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The Perfect Master - Misconception and Resolution 12/16/2004
Hello,
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We thought that you might enjoy a short essay that we recently
wrote. Any comments are welcome!
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Happy holidays!
Sir Eric
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The Perfect Master – Misconception and Resolution*
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"You, the Master, are in charge and in control. You
own the responsibility of your property - whether it is
real estate, slaves or your ...
4 Comments,
410 Views,
32 Votes
,4.27 Score
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Co-dependancy and slave owning 12/15/2004
Many dream of the perfect slave/owner relationship...one
of devotion,
disciple, function and feeling owned body mind and soul...
This is a beautiful fantasy, but the reality can easily
become
unhealthy co-dependancy. In a safe, sane, and consensual
ideal this
isn't exactly sane.
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Where is this line? Can one have a relationship that fulfills
the
fantasy and definition of ...
3 Comments,
363 Views,
34 Votes
,5.31 Score
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Exploring a bi relationship 12/14/2004
How does one who has been straight all of their life, initiate
a bi relationship? It seems like all of the stuff that you
learn with guys goes out the window with woman. Perhaps
i am too nieve, it is so new, and almost scary to me. Does anyone
have any hints on how a woman can connect with another woman?
5 Comments,
264 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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What is the role of symbolism? 12/12/2004
Talk about leashes, collars and other BDSM "accessories"
has got me thinking...
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The very first time I was exposed to this concept was late
into the relationship with my first dom. I started with
an off hand comment that wearing shirt collars or necklaces
always makes me very aware of my neck. He very much liked
what he called my adventurous spirit and fiestiness. He ...
1 Comments,
188 Views,
19 Votes
,3.52 Score
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Begining...need advice 12/11/2004
I have been living with a man for almost 2 months now and care
for him very much. I am quite submissive by nature and I am
starting to see that he is a natural Dom type. We have great
sex, stimulating conversation, and generally get along
well with each other. My problem is that i do not know how
to start a discussion about the Dominant and submissive
rolls we are each already playing ...
9 Comments,
268 Views,
30 Votes
,4.02 Score
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"Power Corrupts" but what about the Power Exchange? 12/11/2004
The idea that power corrupts, does it apply in D/s?
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The first thing that comes to my mind is that it shouldn't
be applicable in a D/s environment. While the quote (i believe)
refers to general power, it's usually applied in political
fields. So i was tempted to just deny it out of hand.
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But that doesn't really make sense. After all, power
is power, in ...
2 Comments,
129 Views,
18 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Introducing the "Lifestyle" 12/7/2004
How does one go and introduce the "lifestyle"
to a new partner? W/o scaring them off. Or does "planting
a seed work within reason.?
5 Comments,
268 Views,
17 Votes
,2.70 Score
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Question 12/5/2004
Ok, I met these girls who were working at a bondage booth
at this local sex toy convention thing, and I asked one out.
She said she'd like to go for drinks after the convention,
and even said "sure we'll go for drinks"
after I asked her later on that night "so you were jokin'
about the drinks right?". Problem is, we had to go
(the guys) towards the end of the show and she disappeared,
so ...
6 Comments,
150 Views,
14 Votes
,2.50 Score
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how to tell one your a tg 12/4/2004
Hi Im a transvestite and live as one ! I have recently met
someone and things are going well thing is this person knows
nothing about my sexuality and i dont know how to approach
this subject without hurting this person or making them
think there is something wrong with them or with me ! i am
at a loss as how to approach this anyhelp would be appreciated
!
5 Comments,
153 Views,
15 Votes
,2.21 Score
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David, Will You Hurry Up And Please Me? 11/28/2004
He was just as needy as I and things seemed okay because we
had stayed in touch and at least we had an understanding.
Trust was there, on both side, to do the right thing. That
is what is so magnificent about him, his sense of right and
wrong plus a sensitive side, and the pure strength of his
convictions. I enjoyed him sharing his sensitivity, which
I am sure he sees as a weakness. On the ...
0 Comments,
258 Views,
44 Votes
,8.06 Score
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Novice Dom 11/24/2004
So you're a novice Dom? Congratulations and welcome
aboard! It is always nice to greet a fellow Dom. But before
you get out them whips and start addressing every sub by
"On your knees slut!" there are a few things
I'd like to say. You may be nervous or scared. I know
it took me a couple of years before I gathered up my courage
and joined the local scene. I'd had fantasies of tying
up and ...
2 Comments,
1061 Views,
113 Votes
,8.48 Score
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