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Reply to 'THIEF' 8/23/2005
It was nice to read a well written piece like yours even if
it was about a low life.
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There are a few honest and trustworthy members on this site
but like you said there are also so many fakers.
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You should let people know what handle he goes by so we can
avoid him and block him, so people like him get the message
that this life style is not just a game for ...
2 Comments,
144 Views,
4 Votes
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Thief 8/21/2005
I just had the strangest experience.
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I'm going to to write about it for my own piece of mind
as I am SO irritated.
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Someone from my area sent me a message. The subject of the
message being "REAL DEAL, " -- this is hilarious,
you will see why as I continue.
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I went to read his profile and was I shocked to see that he
has plagiarized me word for ...
5 Comments,
825 Views,
18 Votes
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Just Laughs...... 8/21/2005
i left alt for quite some time due to the attention sluts
and the know it alls that really know nothing as far as this
lifestyle goes.
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i sit in the rooms and watch them just snag people and i laugh
because the person is so new they think YAY this one is a Dom
and is taking notice of me... little do they know they are
not a Dom but a wanna be. Usually someone who is real ...
9 Comments,
232 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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Passing Judgement 8/17/2005
I am truly surprized to see the number of people who come
to "ALT" and pass judgement on others. Alternative
Lifestyles is what this site is all about. Yet people still
come here and say, "You are wrong for wanting this
or that", or "Your choices are not good, etc".
Maybe it's just the American way, do something and
then condem others for doing the same thing. Still it is
sad to see so ...
5 Comments,
228 Views,
8 Votes
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Responding to Drivel 8/10/2005
I enjoy the magazine section, I like to people watch, I find
it to be entertaining and, at times enlightening.
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Then a moron is a moron and a stupid question is just that
-- stupid. Sometimes it takes some willpower for me to not
reply occasionally with a "You're a dumbass,
asking doofy, meaningless, questions" Sign off
- Thanks.
<br>
I realize this would only be ...
9 Comments,
366 Views,
15 Votes
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Don't Show Me Another Cock. 8/9/2005
As I browse, I see them over and over, photo after photo of
male genitalia. After a while, although most are in an erect
pose, none of them really stand out if you know what I mean?
There are the profile shots, usually the lighting is not
too good, because I imagine you had to hold the camera out
to the side and couldn't really look in the viewfinder.
But yes, it does make it look bigger ...
6 Comments,
261 Views,
17 Votes
,3.69 Score
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Giving Married Men a chance. 8/8/2005
I have been a member of ALT 3.5 years
and have viewed a lot of profiles(all female) I am a straight
male, anyway, I have noticed that quite alot of women aren`t
even interested in men if they are married, I have been
honest in my profile about being married and I do understand
from a certain point of view the complications that being
married brings to a potentional play relationship. I ...
8 Comments,
322 Views,
13 Votes
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Why do people...? 8/6/2005
Chalk it up to a redhead rant, a bad day, or just plain OVERLY
irritated at the people who feel they have to expose others
in the advice lines!!! I am so sick of seeing people "use"
others to "pretend" to get "their"
point across rather than asking a true advice question!!!
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Obviously, you are angry at this person for some reason!!
Why else would you make such a comment in ...
5 Comments,
280 Views,
14 Votes
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P/ppl and open mouths...handles and references 8/5/2005
Some seem a bit too touchy to me on being mentioned as to being
at an event or munch.
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If I am at an event/munch...I wouldn't think twice
about saying I had a good time and saw "chocolate-bobby"...W/we
had a gas, he cracked me up. Wouldn't occur to Me.
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I would never say there real name...that is understandable
and a definite no-no, and I rarely post on any ...
2 Comments,
169 Views,
10 Votes
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Your network of friends 8/3/2005
This may have already been mentioned in here but I'll
have a go at it anyway.
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It annoys the hell out of me when people come into a chatroom
and don't even say hi to you, but the next thing you know
you get a "add me to your network of friends"
e-mail or message.
I've had a self called Dom do this, with the only explanation
given when I asked was "I find it's easier for
me ...
3 Comments,
181 Views,
5 Votes
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Is it just me? 7/24/2005
Is it just me or is it the females choise (whether Domme or
sub) that they get final say on who they are going to meet,
submit to, get submited to, etc. I understand that guys
can send out mail like crazy, get a response, and if they
are lucky, get what they want (again whether Dom or sub.)
Now I don't know how the guys respond but, I've
tried several different approaches on mails; nice, ...
8 Comments,
274 Views,
5 Votes
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My Rant 7/22/2005
I understand that the internet has a lot of high school mentality.
I also understand it's so much easier to make fun of
someone and slam them when you aren't looking at them
face to face. Easy to be a coward when you're hiding
behind that laptop!
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What irks me is the amount of people who get all superior
and laugh at those who mispell words or use bad grammer.
You, and you ...
11 Comments,
455 Views,
16 Votes
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Cheaters 7/18/2005
I corresponded with someone for several weeks. I was excited
by the potential....rare in this weak crop of participants.
Until I finally figured out that he was married. I am not
interested in other women's men.
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His profile stated "single." He claimed that
was an ALT mistake. Sure.....
I was slightly disappointed and totally annoyed.
Waste of time and text.
<br> ...
5 Comments,
390 Views,
22 Votes
,5.05 Score
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Rant- LIARS! 7/15/2005
To preface; I was very honest in my profile. I put up many
pictures, I answered all the questions, everything. Why
is it that everyone I've met of any of thse damn sites
has lied about something important? Most of the time, it's
been about their body type. I don't mean to be shallow,
but it's not a happy thing when somoene says they're
"athletic", then they're about 100 lbs. ...
7 Comments,
204 Views,
6 Votes
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Talking Big 7/14/2005
i'm sure everyone has had this problem but i want to
bitch anyway!
i hate it when i meet someone here, chat for a while, exchange
email, IM, etc, plan a meeting...and get me all worked up...finally
give out my phone number and hope for a call and then NOTHING.
4 Comments,
317 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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Red necks Rule 7/13/2005
The time I have spent on this site has truely had it's
educational rewards. Not my education because most of
it was learned in the Marines and tend to use common sence
not the rocket science, that many others seem qualified
in when down dressing another. But it's always the
same thing when asking a question on the board, the answer
is always after the ass chewing such as, "AFTER READING ...
7 Comments,
274 Views,
6 Votes
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munch attire My opinion 7/12/2005
Question and comment
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pertaining to what is, or should be acceptable at a munch/vanilla
bar?
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I realize that munches are not a place for fet attire...
though I have often seen subs in a collar or Dom/mes in a nice
corset or leather pants/skirt, does no fet attire mean
one can not go in the clothing they feel comfortable in outside
of work and fetish events if it ...
1 Comments,
113 Views,
5 Votes
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the look at me attention seekers..... 7/10/2005
ive been noticing this alot in the chat rooms lately..seems
when some enter the room and see the topic of conversation
decide they dont like it, or that they arent getting the
attention they think they deserve they start with the "yawns"
or "sighs" or the "brb" and are back
by the next post...are they really that desperate for attention
be it positive or negative?? reminds me of a jumping ...
2 Comments,
191 Views,
11 Votes
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Removing old listings 7/7/2005
There should be some kind of time limit, where if you haven't
logged on in say, 3 months, your profile should be dropped.
You get these "love dog" matches, only to see
that most of the people haven't been on in months, and
sometimes years.
I know it looks good for "ALT" to say we have millions
of members, but come on. Most of the profiles are old and
out dated.
You don't include the ...
4 Comments,
179 Views,
12 Votes
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sorry if this goes on 7/7/2005
I dont really no where to start. Maybe i just need to let off
steam.I have recently been through a bit of ahard time with
my master/lover. And over the last few weeks we had started
to rebuild our relationship. And i really thoguth we was
getting back on track. I started to belive in him again to
trust what he said, to feel he cared has he said he did.
Then i find out hes not all i ...
4 Comments,
250 Views,
4 Votes
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Banned Words 7/4/2005
I tried to post in a group. A group I started and got the message
that the post contained banned words!
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I can't imagine what words would be banned on this site!
Does anyone know what they are?
Can you tell me on some sort of code? Might not be able to use
them in a reply either.
2 Comments,
121 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Paging on IM 7/4/2005
Maybe it is just me but I would like to see if anyone else has
this problem. Now I must explain I have an older computer
(thinking of upgrading or replacing) but it works well
and has good speed. I have a broadband ISP. I use my computer
for many of my activities and managing alot of my personal
business. I get people on Alt paging me on IM and by the time
I can accept and the chatroom ...
2 Comments,
168 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Banned Text (the old chestnut) 7/3/2005
Can someone tell me what exactly the banned words are? I've
been trying to submit an erotic story for days and have been
playing with words that look they could be banned but keep
getting the same bloody message. If anyone knows what these
banned words are, or if someone who manages this sight gives
a toss about what a paying member reckons can and actually
reads thisthey please tell me.
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96 Views,
0 Votes
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honesty 7/3/2005
well yes I'm ranting and raving every guy seems older
than me but never honest with me well one and hes married.
Really if i try to look for a good time they lie and say they
r when i want to take it farther they bitch. Then if I want
to get serious then they want no strings. Not sure I qutie
understand older guys but why don't they try at least
to be honest then having a yo yo in front of ...
2 Comments,
170 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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casting a Neutral vote 6/29/2005
Who comprise the myriad of members -- the plethora of people,
if you will -- that cast 'neutral' votes regarding
comments to articles and questions? Just what exactly
is the purpose of this 'neutral' option? Why vote
at all to express that you feel nothing and have no opinion
about the subject matter?! I suggest not 'clicking'
if seated comfortably on the fence.
6 Comments,
286 Views,
15 Votes
,4.51 Score
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Paid memberships and what I want 6/27/2005
Well, I must say I enjoy being on this site. I'm not a
paid member and therefore have difficulty contacting
members but that's ok for now. I've read several
members frustrations in the "Rants and Raves"
section and also others in the advice section seeking tutelage
on techniques for contacting people. One reason I’ve started
this blog is an attempt to generate more correspondence ...
2 Comments,
138 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Let's stop pretending 6/25/2005
I really wish those people who have truly and legitmately
connected on this service would EMail me.
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I have been on ALT -- off and on, paid and unpaid -- for the
past five years. 99.9% of the contacts I've made with
so-called slaves and "no limit" submissives
inevitably brings up some
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I won't even address the "submission is a gift"
crowd because that is ...
7 Comments,
275 Views,
10 Votes
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Responses 6/22/2005
I have only made 2 responses in the magazine articles (actually
3, as I hit the submit button twice on one) but each time a
message reads "delete entire response". I
would like to know what gives? I don't see that message
on anyone elses !!
2 Comments,
104 Views,
4 Votes
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Fourth try...... 6/17/2005
I look around me, and realize I'm getting old. The evidence
is plain to see. Young men whining because, even though
they've half-way filled out a profile, posted a dick-pic,
and maybe even written a couple of poorly spelled letters,
no woman has yet jumped their bones. Seeing so many people
who can't be bothered with spelling, grammer, or even
punctuation....and anyone who champions their ...
7 Comments,
317 Views,
18 Votes
,4.76 Score
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Dodgy 5/22/2005
Recently I decided to bother to message some Dommes. I looked
for the few that seemed genuine and didnt want to ream you
out of money. I fully read their profiles and responded
in a good way not breaking any of the rules or doing any of
the off putting cliches.
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Anyway after messaging about 10 of them all with different
messages relating to their profiles I got 0 responses. ...
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