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Springfiel117 43 M
18 Articles
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Meh   10/10/2023

When did the messenger stop letting new members message people using points?


0 Comments, 23 Views, 22 Votes
RinBoots 71 F
27 Articles
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Use your common sense   7/9/2023

When looking for an experience on this site, just use you common sense things are easy to spot and if your are unsure stay away and be safe.


2 Comments, 47 Views, 25 Votes ,0.70 Score
knottiedrottie 58 M
1 Article
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dirty   1/16/2023

making sure everyone here is clean and want to meet and checking things out to make sure you are real not a scam.


2 Comments, 66 Views, 43 Votes ,0.29 Score
Seeking_MY_slave 49 M
1 Article
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asked for money   8/13/2020

How many people her have been asked for money. The other day a woman was very sad that she couldn't her rent at a hotel, she didn't get paid till friday. She said she was in a hotel, because her husband her, but when I said I was sorry hear that, and if I could see, she disapeared from the chat, but stayed onlinr.


2 Comments, 107 Views, 69 Votes ,1.18 Score
traindeadwood 69 M
2 Articles
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Extreme Abuse   1/2/2020

If you say you are no limits are you in danger of not coming out alive? <br><br> Could any NO LIMITS slaves tell me what their experiences are. And if they have got more cautious as a result of their lack of limits. <br><br> Thank you


4 Comments, 94 Views, 66 Votes ,1.73 Score
steffiswallows 61 M
1 Article
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Violence and reality for trans   11/25/2019

This year, world-wide, 331 transgenders were slain. Here in the united states, twenty-two transgender people were murdered. Ninety-one percent of those folks were trans-women of color. Eighty percent were younger than thirty years of age. We know that these numbers represent an undercount. In many counties and regions police reports, media and even blood relatives misgender and deadname ...


3 Comments, 150 Views, 108 Votes ,2.45 Score
nonsignifigant 55 M
0 Articles
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A Chat with an Ewhore   6/25/2019

The following is a direct cut/paste from a Google Hangouts chat log that I recently had with someone who IM'd me on AdultFriendFinder. It has been reported AdultFriendFinder. <br><br> <br><br> Ross - 3:28 PM OK, I am on here Rose Garry - 3:29 PM Hello Ross am here with you too Ross - 3:30 PM I can see you are very pretty, you don't have to keep sending pics Rose ...


8 Comments, 174 Views, 85 Votes ,2.75 Score
rott4444milfsss 44 M
2 Articles
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looking   5/15/2018

sometimes we have to look farther and look into what we have in cumming sometimes it take bdsm to get to know someone better and get alone and try new thing and explore new thing with them. getting to meet someone the first time it take time to get to know them and get to see what they are into one you get to know them and see what they are into many doors open to you and you feel more open to ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 54 Votes ,2.28 Score
repeatedbehavior 34 F
6 Articles
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oohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh   9/20/2017

The most effective ways to earn points are to encourage other members to become your Top Fans, send you virtual gifts, or by broadcasting your webcam. Members can tip you points for a great show! Try some clever approaches in your profile text and communications to gather Top Fans and gifts!


7 Comments, 100 Views, 60 Votes ,4.13 Score
SexyHard58 28 M
4 Articles
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Public   7/19/2015

Always meet in public first wouldn't you say?


9 Comments, 124 Views, 48 Votes ,2.88 Score
prddddd 38 F
0 Articles
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GAGOL   7/12/2015

Most people struggle with finding their identity at some point in their life. They go through a series of changes and eventually come to a point where they understand and accept who they are. Before they can accept themselves, they may experiment with new things or try to ignore a part of themselves they do not want to accept. Gogol Ganguli from Jhumpa Lahari's novel The Namesake encounters the ...


5 Comments, 143 Views, 46 Votes ,2.66 Score
Londonsub1991 33 M
1 Article
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Warning for UK/London based members   4/23/2015

I got messaged by an American girl based in Virginia stating that she was coming over to London next week and she said later that she worked with an organisation affiliated to ALT that hosted orgy parties and the like. When answering my questions she was very vague and was evidently trying to grab money off me. Later another account from someone in LA responded with exactly the same thing. This ...


1 Comments, 106 Views, 45 Votes ,3.09 Score
jetsly 77 M
1 Article
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How to use SAVE IMAGE AS   2/7/2015

When I am approached by a Mistress, the first thing that I do is run her profile photo by a number of on line registries. Take, for example, a domme who emailed me last night. Her ALT profile situates her in Redding, California. I used Save Image As to download her profile photo to the desktop, and then used both Tineye and Google images to do a search. There was a positive hit, for ...


19 Comments, 334 Views, 85 Votes ,4.40 Score
TheSmartDom 57 M
9 Articles
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Safety in Meeting Men for BDSM   5/18/2012

Comments on Safety in BDSM MJ Reldan TheSmartDom

Our society began with women as chattel and slaves. It hasn’t set a good scene for safe, sane and consentual play. Some men feel that acceptance of their dominance is permission to hold ALL power and worse, license to wield it recklessly. The world of Dominance gives shelter to people of poor character and sick mind, with little to ...


2 Comments, 160 Views, 38 Votes ,5.15 Score
roxy37sexy 61 F
1 Article
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Meeting in Public First   9/3/2011

I think it is important to meet in public first to see if you like one another then being in someone's home. You just never know if you like one another. Of course you will experience no shows but that is part of dating process so expect it. I know I heard horror stories. So becareful out there. So how do you feel meeting in public first? Just Curious.


15 Comments, 355 Views, 65 Votes ,5.01 Score
joyrdassasin4 32 M
4 Articles
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safe sex   1/29/2010

ok so its been a "viral video" with a woman on there saying all the guys she has infected with aids. but yesterday on the radio she called in a cleared it up and said it was just to get more people to view her site and that she is 100% percent clean. She also said that this was to inform peole that aids is real and is still going around. SO WRAP IT UP PEOPLE PLEASE


0 Comments, 78 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
joyrdassasin4 32 M
4 Articles
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safety 1st   1/29/2010

its always good 2 b safe o a date when meeting someone over the net. U never know if they are some stalker psycho lol or anything like that so always b careful... n always wrap it up


2 Comments, 56 Views, 20 Votes ,0.19 Score
best_dom_cairo 43 M
5 Articles
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profiles   4/4/2009

I would like to point out to people that if they do not fill out their profiles with any details, then they are possibly setting themselves up to be over looked. However I do wonder what the point of writing this in the magazine as most of the readers are people who have put alot of time and effort into revealing important details about themselv


1 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
phonedoc 66 M
8 Articles
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Chancing an eggshell ambience   12/24/2008

I have recently visited my local BDSM club nights twice and once to a munch. The munch was very relaxed but I was still observing etiquette in this situation. I have found the club nights very nerve wracking as if I was walking on eggshells. Granted the first night with a Halloween theme went well and I played with two women, lucky me. The last 'Burlesque' themed evening I was smiled at by a very ...


3 Comments, 146 Views, 10 Votes
Birdfinder 80 M
45 Articles
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Safety is a Rwo Way Street   4/1/2008

Safety on dates is really a two way street. I am not a small guy and in very hard condition. While not a giant I know how to care for myself and I have the alpha attitude that keeps most respectful.

I am selective about who I meet and who I date. I don't send money to on line contacts with tear jerk tales. Have had those from east and west in USA as well as Russia, Nigeria and ...


1 Comments, 134 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
zennflower 61 F
10 Articles
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How Do I Find a Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress?   6/27/2007

Before you even start looking for a Dominant/Domme/Master/Mistress. Know yourself, what your desires, your wants, you needs, your limits and what you are looking for in a Dominant/Domme/Master/Mistress. It's a good idea to actually write these lists out, that way while you are talking with them you have the answers right there and don't have to rely on memory. ...


4 Comments, 247 Views, 28 Votes ,7.14 Score
ffdarkwolfe 48 M
1 Article
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what kind of tips should guys follow?   11/2/2006

normally, the tips are targeted to woman, should men follow similar things, something different, or just go with the flow?


0 Comments, 200 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
sexymale1974 49 M
2 Articles
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Beware of the clingy woman........   10/2/2006

Hello everyone. What's up? I love ladies in every way, but ther is one that can be a nightmare. She's the recently seperated female that know's only how to be in a relationship. They can be the best and the crazyest bitch in the world. So my advice is to just leave everything sexual.....Good luck...


2 Comments, 168 Views, 9 Votes ,0.43 Score
sex_demon96 43 M
5 Articles
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Protection against crazy ex-gf's   9/27/2006

It seems like any jealously crazy ex-girlfriend can pick up the phone at any time and accuse a man of domestic assault, what have you, and send them to jail whenever they feel like it. As a man we seem to have no rights or protection, it's always our word against theirs and with these no-tolerance laws the man always get f**ked over.
What suggestions or ideas do people have to ...


1 Comments, 244 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
sex_demon96 43 M
5 Articles
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Protection against crazy ex-gf's   9/27/2006

It seems like any jealously crazy ex-girlfriend can pick up the phone at any time and accuse a man of domestic assault, what have you, and send them to jail whenever they feel like it. As a man we seem to have no rights or protection, it's always our word against theirs and with these no-tolerance laws the man always get f**ked over.
What suggestions or ideas do people have to ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 0 Votes
starmakerxxx 57 M
1 Article
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The Best of Times   8/23/2006

What a great age we live in today. Like a lot of people I thought I was born at the wrong time. I see it more on the alt site, but I've heard it from several groups. You know, " I should have been born at this time or that age. But when it comes to B&D/S&M this is the best of times.
This is the most natural and fun form of "perversion". Like anything else people can take it too ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
planoman2 74 M
50 Articles
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Sir Thomas Trains Bob and Clair - Part II   8/23/2006

Sir Thomas had Clair and Bob put their hands behind their backs. He then tied their wrists together behind their backs. He opened the door to the hotel room and told them to follow him. Both Bob and Clair being totally nude were reluctant to go out of the hotel room. They hesitated just a second before both of them received blows on their buttocks with a command, “Move!”
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0 Comments, 470 Views, 16 Votes ,4.01 Score
IronDuke2006 58 M
2 Articles
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Being safe...   7/11/2006

Don't give them your address & landline phone number.
Do meet first in a pub;ic place. Do arrange a 'safe call' with a friend for a certain time.
Don't always listen to gossip. Some is malicious, more inaccurate.
Do get his full real name, dob & address & phone number.
Trust your own instincts.
Remember we are all human...


2 Comments, 194 Views, 16 Votes ,5.63 Score
Larvaefam 55 F
7 Articles
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Mother fucker or Dom?   6/26/2006

How to define them? Very simple, look to their attitude;



Mother fuckers are unable to grow their subs. They want to get them already educated.
Real domes are always keen to teach, train and grow. Mother fuckers usually are worry about the level of experience of their subs.
Mother fuckers ...


4 Comments, 701 Views, 25 Votes ,3.68 Score