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why? 1/28/2009
If i told somebody no thanks already and keep asking me for
sex? what can i do? that peson dont leave me alone. and im
sick of it.i dont like to use violence or be rude with people
but at this point i feel like if im gonna exploid.
2 Comments,
93 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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The Sun, the Moon and the Stars, and I said no thank you 11/28/2008
I was recently approached by a Dominant that offered me
potentially everything. Several homes in amazing locations,
a connection to nature and life around them, boats, cars,
lake, city, prestige, a private dungeon, freedom to spend,
shop, primp, live what could be seen as the life of Riley.
His letters to me were so far and away from the norm I receive,
they caught my attention and ...
11 Comments,
452 Views,
29 Votes
,6.15 Score
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Already had a problem 5/4/2008
I've been a member here less than 24hrs and I've
been extremely polite to each and every response I've
recieved yet one member asked for my YM ID after our first
email. I politely told him that I don't give out my YM
ID's (I leave them off my profile for a reason) as I've
had problems on another site in the past. He immediately
emailed me back and rudely informed me I must be of lower ...
11 Comments,
371 Views,
34 Votes
,6.92 Score
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No Thank You 1/8/2008
I was checking on the love list and this couple came up
that look to be interesting so i set them a wink and put them
on my hot list. I was wink back and put on their hot list. I e-mail the back to let them know that i was interested in
them Even if they wear on the heavy side, I did not have a
problem with that. The Female was Dom and her husband was a Sub, I sent her a couple of e-mails as to ...
0 Comments,
230 Views,
9 Votes
,1.07 Score
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Thank You, I am not interested. 8/11/2007
When someone contacts me and their profile does not interest
me, I click the quick response and am done. The problem comes when they return email with nasty comments.
Why does NO THANKS have to become a slap to your sexuality,
sensuality, intelligence, body shape, lifestyle and
more?
Maybe the person receiving the NO THANKS should step back
for a moment and think that this person has ...
3 Comments,
119 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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winks and flirting 7/20/2007
Having someone view your profile might suggest they liked
you picture or your one-line come on but it doesn't
necessarily mean they're interested. After reading
about you, there might not be a match. Still it shows up on
your "interested" list.
But winks should be a better indicator right? I say *should*
because I am the proud recipient of a "no thanks"
quick reply indicating she ...
2 Comments,
142 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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Master's Offer 5/21/2007
I consider myself submissive. I received an offer from
a potential master about a week ago.
Here is my problem, the way he approached the subject made
me want to defy. I have never had that happen to me on a first
meeting. He chose to tell me that he is very prominate in
this community and that his wife knows nothing of his desires.
Those two facts right there made my stomach turn. It ...
7 Comments,
383 Views,
21 Votes
,5.97 Score
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no thanks 3/9/2007
I think it's just being rude not to reply to someone
that's taken the time to respond to your profile. ON the other hand there is too many random hits and fake, (maybe
people paid by this site) emails that it starts to piss you
off. If it's a genuine email I reply each time. There are
many ways to say no thanks but the best is thanks for your
interest but no thankyou.
4 Comments,
72 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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random hits to your profile 2/13/2007
Anybody else wonder what contributes to some of randome
visits to your profile? Of course it is flaterring but curious
as well when somoeone for very far away drops by for a look.
5 Comments,
176 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Cock Shots 12/26/2006
i generally turn down requests
for contact from Men who send me nude pictures, especially
cock shots. But i got to thinking, why would a Man send one
of an unattrative cock. Don't get me wrong; most cocks
are more than average in size, but that alone doesn't
make them attractive. So i thought i'd hand out my POV
on the matter.
1) If Your cock is a ...
15 Comments,
534 Views,
39 Votes
,5.76 Score
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how do u say no 12/18/2006
when u set up a meeting with a girl and she smells like fish
how do u tell her no
1 Comments,
127 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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leave it alone 11/21/2006
Why can't people take no for an answer. If a married
person contacts me I politely reply and tell them I am not
interested in married men. Please leave it at that. I don't
want to hear about your miserable marriage or that your
wife is not into it. I am not into it with a married man!
2 Comments,
287 Views,
13 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Why people donth bother to reply 11/12/2006
I have often been thinking why people are so lazy when it
comes to be polite on the net.
Very often when i send someone an email, i dont even get a
reply.
How hard is it to simply say "no thanks, i am not interested"
I know that some get a lots of emails. And of course the women
in here maybe get tons of mails, but thats not an excuse to
not reply, i mean if they get too many mails than ...
6 Comments,
251 Views,
15 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Should I...? 11/9/2006
My "boyfriend", Paul, is very persuasive.
Only recently have I finally given into him and had sex,
but before that I had to resort to all sorts of excuses to
say no. Did I have a good reason? No, not at all. I didn't
want to have sex, but then, I was young and didn't know
much. Every time Paul suggested it, I would feel embarassed
and wonder what to say. My first thought was always, "Should ...
3 Comments,
387 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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Why do some trolls cant take a rejection 10/21/2006
Ive noticed that most trolls can not take rejection. It
makes me question..?
Im always polite when someone approaches me but I can get
really angry when they keep going on and on... so if this
is you.. dont show women that you are desperate it is so unattractive...
thank you
2 Comments,
235 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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How to say no to a woman 10/6/2006
I meet this lovely and beautiful woman here on Alt.com.
I am ready for sex, in all kind and ways, so was she.., but
she was also ready for more; moving togheter in the same
apartment etc. She want listening to me, I doesn't
want a relationship. How to say "No"..!?
3 Comments,
379 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Male Obligations 9/23/2006
It seems the more and more I get into the lifestyle the more
and more i notice that we (of the lifestyle) have a respect
for one another. Top, bottom, male, female, doesn't
matter limits are limits. Which is great but since i live
in a small area i'm stuck looking for vanallia people
to be aroung and date around with, and i think I've noticed
that there is a great lack of resect it seems in ...
1 Comments,
162 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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never thought it would happen 7/16/2006
never thought it would happen to me. I'm not one of those
pretty boys. In the last 3 months I have found 3 occasions
in which I needed to say "No thanks." For one
it was just there was no attraction what so ever. She kept
saying it was the best I could ever get - but I have learned
to have standards. The other was a lady who was in a sad state
mentally. I could not bring myself to ...
1 Comments,
225 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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When there IS no reply... 7/9/2006
I'd think it's safe to say that if you send someone
a reply and you don't get one back, does this not mean
they're not interested?? I've had many people
get so snotty about this and show their true colrs/manners.
So.. What I DONT get is that WHY do the men get so upset over
not getting a reply when their profile CLEARLY states/wreaks
that they're out for a*s?? Personally, if they cant ...
4 Comments,
421 Views,
23 Votes
,4.65 Score
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How to explain to a submissive that he is not suitable 6/23/2006
A submissive usually would not take no for an answer. He
will ask and cajole and plead and say that he loves you(this
is often just a trick to get you to keep him). You get annoyed
bu his whining.
To test whether the guy is genuine, tell him to do something
difficult for you, that would require a lot of effort from
him and observe what he does.
He either does what you asked ...
2 Comments,
124 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score
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Dont Take it personal.... 6/10/2006
Dont take it personal when you meet someone and the "chemistry"
just isnt there. The thing you have to remember is that 99%
of the people you meet you wont get along with EVEN if they
are physically attractive.
The key to finding the right person is knowing that YOU want
and need from a potential Dom/me sub/slave and then DONT
SETTLE for anything less.
When I am meeting someone whom I ...
2 Comments,
143 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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everyones expecting 5/30/2006
people are always sending the most crazy emails and most
expect a responce. This isn't porn shop just a place
to hook up. if people would lightn up and just be honest with
self you'd be getting some right now.
1 Comments,
102 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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will you be the slave for the rest of my life?NO THANKS 4/29/2006
Why people just dont understand when u refuse them and they
are so angry about it.I just dont get it, or maybe i am a little
bit stupid hehe
2 Comments,
227 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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when you've found someone else.... 3/30/2006
Why is it that whenever I've said "Thank-you,
but I've found what I'm looking for right now"
men seem to think its an invite to ask one of, or the entire
series of questions...
"Why does he have I don't" "What makes you think he's better than me"
"Why did you lead me on"
"Will you keep in touch with me in case it doesn't
work out"
"Will you just call me anyways"
Its pathetic. ...
1 Comments,
170 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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How to say you are not interested 3/25/2006
I believe that people need to be more honest when they either
respond to an individual, or show any interest. They need
to be upfront from the beginning. If the person does not
appeal to you, then let them know. Don't lead them on
and then back out. If you put a pic in your profile, make sure
it is you.
0 Comments,
93 Views,
5 Votes
,5.43 Score
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dont get tied down. 2/1/2006
She looked so nuetral. And as i talked to her she showed no
sign of what was to come . I went to her house and we drank some
then she got a little goofy and asked me if she could tie my
hands behind my back. i Playfiully said yes she looked so
sweet and beautiful. nice and almost naive.I let her kindinly
. She removed my pants and as i was naked she rubbed me off
before tying it off with ...
0 Comments,
549 Views,
21 Votes
,0.28 Score
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Is It Illiteracy or Just Ignorance? 1/10/2006
The thing is a lot of times, saying "No thanks"
doesn't work. Men are particularly clueless. They
troll. They stalk. They whine, wheedle, and lie their asses
off just for the incomprehensible "flirtation"
of showing you a picture of their penis as if that's
all the allure someone wants in a relationship. Get some
clues, boys!
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When someone takes the time and makes the ...
2 Comments,
588 Views,
53 Votes
,6.80 Score
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Kinda hard to say NO 12/17/2005
Kinda ODD but I feel we all have had this moment in our "dateing"
lives.......hence ya like certain peeps but not sexually....But
they want you...Odd cause when you crave this you get it
but not from the ones you want....lol...Ironic cums to
mind...lol...So do you engage in sex just cause the other
wants too, or you say no and become the bad guy? I rather say
NO and be ohnest.....Sum say ...
1 Comments,
145 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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How to say no 11/7/2005
To say "no" and make it stick, try this three-step
technique. Ask yourself each of these questions, and then
look your friend straight in the eye, and confidently state
your position:
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1. What's the problem?
Be very specific about what is wrong. Give it a name. Say
"that's stealing, " or "that's
dangerous, " or "that's mean."
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2. What could ...
0 Comments,
168 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score
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how to say no 10/23/2005
Be honest in your evaluation of the other person and if you
still feel a negativity of interest be firm and say/write
NO (nothing else equates with these two letters so far as
communication is concerned - it is a universal acceptance
of negativity).
0 Comments,
205 Views,
15 Votes
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